Lisi's Birthday

As usual, life gets in the way of my blogging, I feel like I have so much to catch up on...but first the most important event..

Happy 5th Birthday--yesterday--to our Analise Renee, aka Lisi!

Lisi was born on March 3, and yes, that goes along with our lucky (or freakish?) number 3 thing (remember, 3 girls, all born in March, all three years apart).

I was induced a week early with her--with Chris doing his fellowship and unable to get away from the hospital quickly, and with caring for my mom and 2 other children I was pretty nervous about having another quick labor (Abs was 1 1/2 hours). And my doc agreed! The nurses joked that they all wanted to have me as a patient because they knew the baby would be here in time for them to eat lunch, haha! Sure enough, she was!

She weighed 7 lbs, 12 oz., and looked exactly like Kierst and Abs--and me!-- black hair, little nose, and chubby cheeks.

Oh, how quickly the last 5 years have flown by! I know everyone says that, but it's so true!

Birthday #1...

Number two...Number three...

Number four...

And now number 5! Hasn't she grown so much??

In our family, you get to choose your favorite foods for breakfast and dinner, so for breakfast it was blueberry pancakes!

Then presents!

Hot dogs, carrot sticks, strawberries and fries for dinner.

What more can I say about Lisi than she is just a sweet child? She makes us laugh, she gives us hugs and kisses, she loves to help clean and cook and play tennis and dance and sing.

Happy 5th Birthday!

The Sleepies

We are officially a house full of sleep-deprived zombies.

At least that's the word from the sleep doc.

In January we took Abbie in to see a sleep disorder doctor. Why?

Her teacher told me she fell asleep on the way home from a field trip (how does anyone do that with a bus full of 2nd graders?), she's actually done that twice. And within about 5 minutes she's usually out cold whenever we go anywhere in the car (and I mean out cold, music could be blaring she doesn't hear it, and I mean anywhere, even to the grocery store). Add to this that we know she's up here and there through the night, is constantly exhausted and hard to rouse. We've seen a big swing change in her personality over the past year or so, she does well in school, but crashes the minute she walks through the door.

So off to the doctor we went.

She asked us questions like, are we consistent with bedtime? Yes, except on vacation! Otherwise it's 8 p.m., maybe 8:30 on the weekends (let me tell you we don't have a choice unless we want grumpy children, these kids never sleep in!).

Does she move around a lot in her sleep? Well, that depends on what your definition of is, is. You see Kiersten is a bed thrasher, arms and legs fly everywhere all night, and Abbie, well, she may move around a lot but not like Kiersten.

Does she sleepwalk? No, but Kiersten does, usually 4-5 times a week.

You get the idea. She checked Ab's throat, her tonsils were so small that the doc could barely see them. Since Abs has relatives with sleep apnea, she recommended a sleep study. More on this later.

Then she recommended we bring Kiersten in! We hadn't even thought about it, although Kierst can be pretty lethargic too, and constantly seems to have evening headaches.

We brought Kierst in and after talking with her she ordered blood work to check her iron levels, I guess low iron levels can contribute to restless leg problems, a good place to start. Then she told me that I need to see an adult sleep doc! Haha! A little revelation, but really not a surprise, I'm a terrible sleeper, always have been, and am always exhausted, restless leg? You know it!

Kierst's pheratin levels were low, she's now taking iron which has cut down her sleep walking to maybe once a week, her focus has improved, and her headaches seem to be gone! Hooray!

Abbie's appointment for a sleep study was scheduled for May, but thanks to a cancellation we were able to get her in Monday night. It took an hour for them to hook her up to all the wires and machines, I wanted to get a picture but there was no way she would have that!

(Side note here: Chris was on call Mon. night--we were so desperate to get the study done that we decided to chance him having to go in, usually it's only about 1 in 5 calls that he actually has to go the hospital. Haha! He got called in right after I took Abs to the hospital, took Lisi and Kierst with him, they watched a movie while he attended to the "this will only take 30 minutes" procedure. That led to a delivery, which led to other things, 3 hours later the girls were still watching movies in the waiting room, they didn't get home until 10 p.m. Of course he got called throughout the night but didn't have to go in. I was worried that he would get called in right before school, I knew Abs and I wouldn't be home until late, and someone needed to get everyone ready. Wouldn't you know that he got called in at 5:30 a.m.? Fortunately my sis was here and Chris got home by 7:30 to get everyone off. Whew. Talk about sleep deprived :)

Anyway..they did order labwork right after the study to check Abbie's iron levels. Turns out Abbie's legs were moving all night!

No surprise there, (at least if you know Abbie), and apparently the rest of our family!!

I guess each sleep study generates about 1,300 pages of data that have to be interpreted, things like carbon dioxide and oxygen flow, dreaming, heart rate, etc., that are measured every 30 seconds. We won't have the results for another 2-4 weeks, so it will be a while until we know exactly what's going on.

So hopefully in a couple of months we'll all be sleeping better! All of us, that is, except for Chris. Nothing he can do about call!

Baptism

Last weekend I made a quick trip to Salt Lake City for my nephew's baptism, no kids, just me. What a fun time I had with my sister and her family!

Side story: Without kids I thought I'd have peaceful, relaxing flights there and back, just me, my laptop and kindle. Haha! The airline gods were consipiring against me! My flight to Denver was delayed 25 minutes, I only had 30 minutes between flights in Denver. So I spent the first flight biting my nails, hoping to make the connection, once I ran to the other gate I learned the other flight was delayed, too. Yay! Of course, then we spent 45 minutes on the runway while waiting to be de-iced.

And while I'm on the subject of flying I might as well say that on the way back my flight out of SLC was delayed 45 minutes, I (again!) only had 30 minutes between flights. Somehow we made up time in the air, landed 5 minutes before my other plane was to depart, I ran the 20 gates to the other plane (this is when you learn how truly out of shape you are, or at least I am!), fortunately, they were "unofficially" holding the plane for the 3 of us who just arrived. Whew!! Maybe next time I'll just pay the extra $ for non-stop flights!

The first stop after the airport? Dinner from Red Iguana, of course, for the best Mexican food in SLC! (Yes, Cafe Rio is scrumptious, but yum yum, almond mole from Red Iguana, nothing can top you.)

Friday I spent the afternoon with my sister at the BYU Art Museum. I love going to museums with my sister, she's an art junkie, too, we spent our time analyzing, critiquing and just absorbing the art.

The main exhibit at BYU right now is about Carl Bloch. He's a once-famous 19th century Danish painter who fell into obscurity, but whose work was seen by someone at LDS Church Headquarters who felt that his paintings would be perfect for gospel teaching, they've become almost iconic LDS pictures.

If you want to learn about the exhibit, here's the link:http://carlbloch.byu.edu/

If you're a member of my Church, you're probably familiar with Bloch's work, you just might not know that he painted them. I like his use of light and dark (chiaroscuro for art historians like me), his classical figures that portray a scene from the scriptures in a viewpoint that isn't necessarily "classic" (yes, he seems to have been heavily influenced by Caravaggio, he studied in Italy for 5 yrs, again for you art historians). Here's a sampling of his altarpieces, one belongs to BYU, the others are at the exhibit on loan from Lutheran Churches in Denmark:

Christ Healing the Sick at Bethesada:

The Doubting Thomas:Christ and the Young Child:

And my absolute favorite of all--Christ in Gethsemane:

I don't think the reproduction does the piece justice, it really takes your breath away.

Then we went to a delightful Dorthea Lange exhibit entitled "Three Mormon Towns." Here's the link:http://moa.byu.edu/fileadmin/moa/lange/exploring.html. Click on the link for the original Life magazine layout and you can see most of what was in the exhibit.

If you don't know who she is, Lange is a well-known American photographer, her Depression-era photography taken for the government is the most famous of her work. This exhibit showcases her photographs of three southern Utah Towns taken in the 50's for a Life Magazine piece. There were shots of canned vegetables, people attending church, women in aprons, Utah cowboys, I love looking at photography anyway, and this was just a delicious treat. Here are a few images, not necessarily my favorites, but the ones I could get off the BYU website:

Saturday was the main event: my nephew's baptism!

Here are my bro-in-law and nephew, ready to go to the church.

Now ready for baptism!

My nephew is the only grandchild on my side of the family--besides my kids, of course. He has autism, and my sister has really done a great job working with him on her own. He was so excited for his baptism he didn't want to have to wait for talks and singing, once the clothes were on he was ready to go! I love his enthusiasm! The Spirit was so strong during the service, I started crying during the opening song, so did my sister's sister-in-law I was seated next to, we were the ones giving talks and had to keep it together somehow!!

Afterwards, pics of everyone, then a reception at my sister's house.

The Nielson/Decker side who was there: L to R, my cousin, my aunt (not by blood, but love) and her husband, my great-aunt, my 2nd cousin and his wife, me, my sister.

My bro-in-law's family

My sister and me. I guess we've changed a little as we've gotten older, but we still look a lot alike! When we were younger, people would ask if we were twins, but we're six years apart, either I looked older--umm, never happened to me with my chubby cheeks--or she looked really young!

The rest of the visit was spent with Steve's family going swimming, o.k., me watching my nephew and sister swim, going to church, and of course, eating chocolate cake!

Can visits ever last long enough?

Free Time

A couple of weeks ago I was released as primary president at our church. I only served three years but wow! did the time go by quickly!

I know that everyone always says their favorite calling is the one they currently have, but I loved primary! What could be better than spending your Sundays teaching little children about Jesus Christ and how to live a good life? I loved the simplicity in primary, that we talked about the basics of the gospel like believe in Jesus Christ, be baptized, be nice, be honest, pay your tithing, say your prayers, read your scriptures, serve others. Those simple truths are what being a Mormon is all about.

And how I love those children! I think they're the best ones in the whole Church, not that I'm biased or anything! I loved watching the 11 year olds advance to Young Women and Young Men, then seeing those smart boys pass the sacrament, I loved attending the baptisms of the 8 year olds, hearing the children sing songs of the Gospel, giving talks, bearing testimonies, sharing their experiences, asking questions, looking up scriptures, giving hugs. I loved feeling the Spirit bear witness of the life of Jesus Christ and the truthfulness of the Gospel during sharing time, the entire room quiet and peaceful, the children feeling the warmth of the Holy Ghost.

My Sundays just won't be the same.

I've had quite a few people ask me what I'm going to do with all of my free time. Let me just say I never have a problem filling time!

Along with all the other things I normally do, since being released I've painted a bathroom, study room, sewn 2 sets of curtains, helped Chris finish installing a pocket door in our laundry room (including painting shelves, the laundry room, the hallway, down the stairs, can I say how bad oil-based enamel smells?), reframed pictures, worked on taxes, organized a cupboard, volunteered to help out with more hoa and pta things, to name a few. I don't have problem filling my time, I always feel like I don't have enough time do everything I'd like to!!

I'm heading out this morning for a quick trip to Utah to attend my nephew's baptism. Can't wait! I'll post pictures of the laundry room renovation when I get back! Who would have thought we would do renovations on a 3-year old house?

But boy, do I miss primary!!

Follow-up

Yesterday I talked to the person who invited us to play on the Friday night mixed doubles league. She's also in charge of the whole thing.

Turns out the level of play is supposed to be 7.0.

Whew.

I wasn't going to submit Chris to an 8.0 match again, but it looks like we'll play the rest of the season after all.

Yipee!!

Nothing Like Baptism by Fire

There is nothing quite like baptism by fire.

Especially in tennis.

And yes, this is a rambling post about tennis, feel free to skip if you just started yawning. I just have to get it out.

A few weeks ago I was asked to join a Friday night mixed doubles league with Chris at our club. Me: Well that sounds like fun, but you know that Chris has NEVER played a match before, that he just started playing 6 months ago (because of his schedule he's lucky to get in 1 day a week of play, sometimes 2 with a lesson and hit and run), right?? Other person: That's no problem.

When I said yes I was thinking that this must just be a fun, non-competitive league (O.K., does that actually exist?) where we'll be paired up against an equal team, otherwise, why would she have even asked us?

Wrong.

Last night was our first match. We're waiting for the courts to free up when I run into the captain of my USTA 8.0 mixed team from last summer. He's playing with the same person he played with over the summer on the 8.0 team. And it turns out we're playing each other.

Seriously?

So I proceed to tell him and his partner (remember, I played on their team this past summer, played with this guy as a partner in a match, have played with the girl in hit and runs and she invited me to play on world team tennis last year but I just didn't have time, so I do know them) that this is Chris' first ever match, that he just started playing this past summer. The guy's response was, "You know we're going to kill you, right, haha."

Again, in my naive head I'm still thinking that this is non-competitive, that I know these people and they'll be "nice." Umm, no. This IS competitive. They served their normal serves and hit their normal strokes. I have to admit I was ticked off last night, to say the least, maybe because I'm protective of my partner, maybe I was just mad not to be paired with equal opponent, probably because I felt like it was poor sportsmanship. I want Chris to enjoy tennis. I mean hit those to me all you want, but sheesharoni at the very least slow down your serve to Chris who is a BEGINNER.

Well, if you were playing someone that you knew was a BEGINNER (Chris) and you had played in COLLEGE (the other guy) how would you play against them?

I know, all's fair in tennis. And, since I learned last night that this is a competitive league, I can understand why they didn't hold back. But...

Out of the corner of my eye I'm watching the court next to us and the ball is going back and forth about half speed and I'm wondering why we're not playing the people next to us???

I was very proud of Chris. By the end he was getting some of their serves back, he hit some winners at the net, he had some good serves, I was just proud of him in general. For just starting out he's doing really well!

We won 2 games out of the match and brought 5 or 6 games to deuce. We stayed after and played for "fun" (that's in quotes because the pace of the game didn't change) and won a few of those games. Considering everything I would have to say that's pretty good.

Bottom line: we're going to carve out more time for him to play. Next summer when we go back to Destin I want him to join in the fun (and non-competitive!)round robin play at Seascape, haha!

I'm just happy to have him on the court with me :)

Christmas

In Chris' practice, everyone gets one of three holidays off-Thanksgiving, Christmas or New Year's. This year was Christmas-hooray!



We were so lucky for so many years to live in the same city with Chris' parents that we just became used to spending Christmas with his family, I could even say we became spoiled with everyone flying into KC! I don't remember Chris having much time off during the holidays during residency and fellowship, but we loved that Chris could work a full day and then meet us at their house afterwards.




Even though they've moved, his parents are still within a day's drive of our house, so off we went for a quick trip Christmas this year. We stopped in Manhattan, KS overnite to visit one of his brothers and his family. What a great time we had! We celebrated Chris' b-day there with Chris' favorite cheesecake--from Cheesecake Factory.




We stayed up way too late and got up way too early, Abs and Lisi were fast asleep the next day...

Try as she might Kierst can never fall asleep in the car, but she thought it would be cool to have her pic taken as well the same way, haha.

The evening we arrived Grandma read a bedtime Christmas story.

All the girls in town (Grandma, Chris' sister, Wendy and her daughter Kelsey, and my girls) went to see the Nutcracker Ballet. Doesn't Abs look like she could fit in with Wendy's family?

Chris' parents live in a large community with great ammenities. The weather was gorgeous, we spent an afternoon at the park near their home, can't believe there wasn't any snow! We hadn't been to this park before, but it was great.

Kierst's b-ball team has been seeded in the top division this year, which means that she needs to practice! Fortunately we brought b-balls with us just in case. Had we known they had tennis courts we would have brought racquets, too! (Side note here, I'm really jealous that their courts have LIGHTS, the only courts we have access to are 20 minutes away, and there are only 4 of them, ahh, I get sidetracked so easily...)
Kierst and I played HORSE, which eventually became HORSES when she was losing, which eventually became double or nothing when she lost the first game. Well, she lost double or nothing which meant she had to do the laundry by herself--not the dreaded laundry! Being the good mom that I am I let her run laps dribbling across the courts in place of doing laundry, haha! I got her drills in!

Like everywhere we go, friendly Abs made a new friend with whom she hung out the rest of the time.

Chris showed the girls some skater moves...

Christmas Eve was a "pig out" at Wendy's house. It's such a great idea-everyone gets to pick a favorite dish and then we all pig out!

Kierst wanted shrimp, Abs Swedish meatballs, Lisi Cheetos, Chris brought a cheese plate because he made all the girls' foods, as well as most of my chocolate cake with chocolate frosting--you know there's nothing else I'd choose as my favorite food!

Afterwards we did the nativity with Lisi as the angel... Abs as Mary...

David as Joseph (side note here, David is a great cousin--he spent 3 days surrounded by our crazy girls and happily played with them--what a great guy!)...and Kiersten as the shepherd...

Here's the shepherd pointing to the star, holding her sheep, which was actually a seal, but hey, when you're doing a nativity in a house without small children, you use whatever stuffed animals they have left!

Kelsey played the three kings--all at the same time!

Christmas morning the girls actually slept until 7 a.m., if you can believe it! Kierst was sure that one package contained something digital, but we had warned her that we weren't buying anything too big--Santa brought us an air hockey/ping pong table (no, not a tabletop, one almost full size, full size wouldn't quite fit our basement, more about this later, see what I mean about getting distracted)...But Kierst did get fondant, a cake decorating set, and a class on cake decorating-all things she wanted. This year Kierst really worked to buy presents for everyone in the family, she saved her allowance, did extra chores around the house, saved her "piano bucks" from her piano teacher, I think she's learned how wonderful it is to give something to others. And she's become a saavy shopper when it comes to sales--haha--that would be from me! She bought a webkinz for Abs, a bubblegum machine for Lisi, a sweater for me, and a panini press for Chris.

She painted a pic for Grandma and Grandpa and Abs gave them a coupon book she'd made.

Abs was pretty excited about it.

Abs followed Kierst's example and saved up for presents for everyone, too, she went in on the sweater and panini press, bought Kierst a bottle cap necklace, and Lisi a mazin' hampster.

Sheer joy from one sister to the other!

Santa completely surprised me--that jolly old man brought me a laptop!! He loaded it with Lightroom, Elements, my pictures, and made sure it had lots of memory and speed for graphics. He certainly knew what I wanted for Christmas, I've been on it waaay too much since opening it!

Well, Santa also knew what Chris wanted for Christmas and had it delivered to his parents' home so that he had no clue, haha! A rock grinder/polisher! No, not a tumbler, silly, we're some serious rock dorks here, this is a real live grinder polisher with six wheels!! Somehow I didn't capture Chris' face at the right moment, but he was pretty thrilled:)

Love this pic of Chris and his dad checking it out--you know that every time we visit they polish rock together, his parents are our partners in rockhounding!

Lisi was happy to help everyone open their presents, too!

Wendy's family came over for traditional Christmas morning apelskivers and for more opening of presents. It's been delightful to watch Wendy's family grow up, one daughter got married last summer and we got to know her husband better on this trip, we had such fun with them! I guess you had to be there for this one, all I can say it "For Real!"

Chris' brother and family flew in from Seattle Christmas night, and the girls had even more cousins to play with! Chris and his younger bro.

With Chris back on the schedule the 27th, we left Sunday morning for KC. It seems that there's just never enough time to spend with family, we're just glad we had a chance to spend a little bit with them. What a Merry Christmas!